Simpatico

Up until now my husband web page has not change. He has a very simple direct to the point advertisement. He rather spent his earnings updating his equipments to get more work to cover. However, I always get stuck adding images from the finish work to show to his potential costumers how things are done. At one time he got a call from his web hosting site asking if he is interested about web page deisgn denver. Like I mentioned, he declined because he don’t want to put too much into his web page. Furthermore, he said maybe if he is selling products online it would be a good idea to get a professional web page design.

He still like working directly with costumers. I think he will get board if he doesn’t get out of the house and doing his business, whatever it is, sitting down on a chair inside his office. He will get a chance when he gets older, but not right now. He also gets a chance to meet a lot of people and that help a lot when campaigning for office. We are so different in some ways and the same with most. I rather be alone in an office and hide as far as I can from the costumers, but somehow I always end up getting a job dealing with them. (Weird)

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Saturday Save - The Best For Last #2

Really?

I posted this in my other blog and I'm revising the words I used or not. Just a little background from me, I grew up with both mother and father. They are very strict about people we date. My father side of the family has a history of adultery with in laws. They brought us up never to look at our cousins in any sexual way. When I said cousins, everyone that has even 1 percent blood in them.

We are not allowed to marry in the same family. No brother in law's brother, no sister in law's sister. Not even if your sister's wife died or brother's died you are not allowed to step in and marry your brother in law's or sister in law's. They are already part of the family and will always be part of the family even if they marry again who is not related to us. The family will help bring up the kids and discipline them because they are a member of the family.

DH side of this argument is, it is ok to marry your ex-sister in law (ex meaning when your siblings die they are not part of your family anymore). Taking the responsibility of your dead brother (if you are a man) or your dead sister (if you are a woman) goes to the one who is not married and unattached. My argument with this is, the member of the family are still responsible because the widow is still a family and will always be. Responsibility does not mean you need to sleep with the widow and maybe have kids with them, definitely not. Are we running out of none relatives in this world and you need to be sexual with your own family?

If the widow had kids with the first marriage, then had more with the next who is the member of the same family now the kids will have: sisters/brothers, cousins/sisters/brothers, uncle/father, oh hear this one, father/grandfather, daughter in law/wife and now my own kids will have smaller brothers or sisters from their sister in law now step mother. Wow, thinking all that makes my head hurts. The discipline and responsibility part that DH is arguing about, I don't get and even others arguments that agree with him.

I have 5 boys in my house including DH. If I die and my oldest son's die with me, what is he going to do? Step in as a father and grandfather or maybe ask my second son to marry the woman. That is sick and I hope I don't die before DH because there is no way in my life I will let this happen. Call me selfish, non conservative, broad minded or does not care about keeping the family together, I don't care. They are a family member, what we eat is what they will eat and they will be living in my house until they are able to afford for themselves or re-marry outside the family. We will be helping each other as family but not helping in sexual way.

Ok, let me hear your point, I will not agree with it but give it a shot anyway. I even called a friend (he he he you know who are, and I am thankful for talking to me) of mine from down south to hear her side on this. She is also a Filipina and hoping we have the same belief, however she can see the point in both sides. I tried calling an American friend but I think she was working and no one answered the phone. I even tried my sister in law but I think she was busy herself because she is getting married next Saturday.

Give me your sides, I would like to know if I'm nuts, selfish, and trying to break the family apart. Please no excuse about modern society/world we have or keeping the wealth in the family (ok the wealth reason is selfish). What do you believe?

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T.G.I.F. "In This Life of Ours"

Friday already? Time flies so fast, my vacation is already over. Next week the kids and I will be doing lessons again. YDS is doing great with the potty training. He tells me when he needs to use the bathroom. Not only that, he holds going to the bathroom all night and go as soon as we wakes up. Actually most of my boys was all like that, I don't even have to put diapers on them at night. My only DD in the other hand is a different story.

More rally for DH this weekend. He will be passing flyer and talking to people about our Constitution. It is very cloudy again outside, and I'm wishing tomorrow is a better day for him being out and all. If you are not doing anything but watch parade this weekend, help us by giving away flyer and other things that can be found from certain sites.

If you are enjoying what is happening right now this is not for you. If you are sick and tired of what is going on, please I urge you to help and let your voices heard. How much is your freedom worth? Are you willing to lose human rights to have freedom? Then you are socialist, our constitution did not say other wise. Human rights is our freedom, and taking it away from us is unconstitutional.

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